thats what i really wanna do, but i'll see her pretty much everyday after she moves to where around i live, your childhood bestfriend only have 1 funeral.
Do you have a friend that can help your Grandmother move? If not, no offense to your friends sister. Being notified via facebook is the lowest form of communication in my opinion. If you were real friends you would have known more and received a text or call. Even Kippy has my cell phone number just in case I die all of a sudden. And I don't even like the guy.
well they moved away to another state and never really came back when i was young, but im just conflicked, like i could just hire people to help my grandma but shes like almost in her 90s, but my old bestfriend is having his funeral , thats why i asked you weirdos here, if i asked my family theyd just say grandma but most people would say your best friend.. so idk
So if you can afford to hire people and you are conflicted because she is in her 90's, you should be with your grandmother, because like you said she;s in her 90's, if it was say your middle aged mom, I may say just hire someone. But once you hit those 90's they need family support.
I think the important thing is how many people are already helping, are they just guilting you into helping with it because family. Or do they actually need help. Then take that and which is more important.
the only people thatd be there is my parents and my grandma, they want me to be there so everything works right. but they're getting paid, itd be the last time id be at her house and go swimming in the lake again. one thing about me is, i decide what i wanna do, but this is just one thing i dont know what to do. and if i ask anyone i know IRL they'd just say my grandma, not to meantion both are pretty important to me.
You can also always throw your own personal private funeral with friends or just yourself for your friend. Missing a funeral doesnt mean you dont care, just my total of 4 cents at this point
yeah but the fact i was invited to that funeral meaning they wanted me to be there, and its not my friends in minnesota, its in another whole city in wisconsin.
Sometimes people dont make things, put it this way if a friend of mine couldnt make it to MY funeral because they were helping their grandmother, id be like good. I didnt get to spend much time with mine and she was a baller fisher apparently. Spend the time you can with the ones that are still around
completely true. i'll just help her move. dudes dead and i havent seen em in 22 years anyway. i'll just send some money to the mom to make the grave amazing. and dont worry we'll send a laptop to your funeral, edit: imagine saying wedding. lmao.
help your grandma.
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thats what i really wanna do, but i'll see her pretty much everyday after she moves to where around i live, your childhood bestfriend only have 1 funeral.
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Do you have a friend that can help your Grandmother move? If not, no offense to your friends sister. Being notified via facebook is the lowest form of communication in my opinion. If you were real friends you would have known more and received a text or call. Even Kippy has my cell phone number just in case I die all of a sudden. And I don't even like the guy.
Just my opinion.
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The best form of communication is pcmemes
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This is the only way I communicate. Imagine using facebook or Twitter.
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If i announced one of my family members died on here, id get an hourly pin and many awards!
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Underrated comment.
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well i got a following on both cause im not a random. lol. i post on here sometimes, i just needed advice for this.
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The only thing I didn't say, my sincere condolences, and I wasn't making light of your current situation.
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thanks.
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well they moved away to another state and never really came back when i was young, but im just conflicked, like i could just hire people to help my grandma but shes like almost in her 90s, but my old bestfriend is having his funeral , thats why i asked you weirdos here, if i asked my family theyd just say grandma but most people would say your best friend.. so idk
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So if you can afford to hire people and you are conflicted because she is in her 90's, you should be with your grandmother, because like you said she;s in her 90's, if it was say your middle aged mom, I may say just hire someone. But once you hit those 90's they need family support.
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almost in her 90s, but you're right i guess, read what i said to kippy i guess too
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north minnesota and somewhere in wisconsin, unless you have tech that can get halograms thats not possible, same day. and 500 miles from where i am
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I think the important thing is how many people are already helping, are they just guilting you into helping with it because family. Or do they actually need help. Then take that and which is more important.
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the only people thatd be there is my parents and my grandma, they want me to be there so everything works right. but they're getting paid, itd be the last time id be at her house and go swimming in the lake again. one thing about me is, i decide what i wanna do, but this is just one thing i dont know what to do. and if i ask anyone i know IRL they'd just say my grandma, not to meantion both are pretty important to me.
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You can also always throw your own personal private funeral with friends or just yourself for your friend. Missing a funeral doesnt mean you dont care, just my total of 4 cents at this point
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yeah but the fact i was invited to that funeral meaning they wanted me to be there, and its not my friends in minnesota, its in another whole city in wisconsin.
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Sometimes people dont make things, put it this way if a friend of mine couldnt make it to MY funeral because they were helping their grandmother, id be like good. I didnt get to spend much time with mine and she was a baller fisher apparently. Spend the time you can with the ones that are still around
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completely true. i'll just help her move. dudes dead and i havent seen em in 22 years anyway. i'll just send some money to the mom to make the grave amazing. and dont worry we'll send a laptop to your funeral, edit: imagine saying wedding. lmao.
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You’re a bitch ass BIPOC.. DIE..
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