I think the important thing is how many people are already helping, are they just guilting you into helping with it because family. Or do they actually need help. Then take that and which is more important.
the only people thatd be there is my parents and my grandma, they want me to be there so everything works right. but they're getting paid, itd be the last time id be at her house and go swimming in the lake again. one thing about me is, i decide what i wanna do, but this is just one thing i dont know what to do. and if i ask anyone i know IRL they'd just say my grandma, not to meantion both are pretty important to me.
You can also always throw your own personal private funeral with friends or just yourself for your friend. Missing a funeral doesnt mean you dont care, just my total of 4 cents at this point
yeah but the fact i was invited to that funeral meaning they wanted me to be there, and its not my friends in minnesota, its in another whole city in wisconsin.
Sometimes people dont make things, put it this way if a friend of mine couldnt make it to MY funeral because they were helping their grandmother, id be like good. I didnt get to spend much time with mine and she was a baller fisher apparently. Spend the time you can with the ones that are still around
completely true. i'll just help her move. dudes dead and i havent seen em in 22 years anyway. i'll just send some money to the mom to make the grave amazing. and dont worry we'll send a laptop to your funeral, edit: imagine saying wedding. lmao.
I think the important thing is how many people are already helping, are they just guilting you into helping with it because family. Or do they actually need help. Then take that and which is more important.
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the only people thatd be there is my parents and my grandma, they want me to be there so everything works right. but they're getting paid, itd be the last time id be at her house and go swimming in the lake again. one thing about me is, i decide what i wanna do, but this is just one thing i dont know what to do. and if i ask anyone i know IRL they'd just say my grandma, not to meantion both are pretty important to me.
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You can also always throw your own personal private funeral with friends or just yourself for your friend. Missing a funeral doesnt mean you dont care, just my total of 4 cents at this point
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yeah but the fact i was invited to that funeral meaning they wanted me to be there, and its not my friends in minnesota, its in another whole city in wisconsin.
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Sometimes people dont make things, put it this way if a friend of mine couldnt make it to MY funeral because they were helping their grandmother, id be like good. I didnt get to spend much time with mine and she was a baller fisher apparently. Spend the time you can with the ones that are still around
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completely true. i'll just help her move. dudes dead and i havent seen em in 22 years anyway. i'll just send some money to the mom to make the grave amazing. and dont worry we'll send a laptop to your funeral, edit: imagine saying wedding. lmao.
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